Sure ok but you haven’t actually addressed the paradox of tolerance.

It’s great that you love freedom, autonomy, and open discussions, but what if there is a group of people intent on using this inclusivity to promulgate their agenda, which is intolerance?

To say the same thing another way, these ideals are based on the premise that everyone is acting in good faith, but some are not.

As you say you need to wait until people step out of line. Modern society has determined that the “line” is somewhere before assembling in overtly intolerant groups. A parade of Nazism is already out of line.