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Comment on A lot of societies problems would be solved if they taught about forming healthy relationships in school.

I would like to see people educated how to argue without getting personal. And how to communicate that you aren’t in a mood to argue right now, because you’re angry and wouldn’t listen.

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wellnowletssee@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
A good start for sure would be to learn to listen and understand, not listen to answer.

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- intensely_human@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Arguing is a path to understanding. We don’t argue just to create pain, it’s got a purpose to it.
  
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Zippy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I could see that being an overall skill but likely won’t result in people leaving their basements and developing some social skills.

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- entropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Being able to sort out impersonal debate from a fight is a social skill
  
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  - Zippy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    Yes but it is only one and it is rather a minor one when it comes to socializing in a group. Unless you are the type that immediately starts a conflict with strangers in which case you might have anger issues.
    
    That might help people in relationships mind you and that would have some value.
    
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