Again, it’s 24XX, I’m supposed to believe humanity has achieved near-utopia, why am I getting the feeling that you’re trying to show me how gay these dudes are purely because they’re gay.
What? When did DIS ever do that? The fact Stamets and Culber are gay is not central to their character or any episodes. They’re just normal people who do normal things who is accepted by everyone around them without question. I’m not sure how much normal you can get than that. I think your issue is that they exist because DIS doesn’t do anything you claim with Stamets and Culber.
The Orville, on the other hand, just kinda… treated it like it was normal.
No, it doesn’t at all. Topa has zero character development beyond being transgender. The Orville only brings her out when they want to make an episode about her being discriminated against. She has zero character development outside that. That isn’t normal.
How does that not go against my previous complaints? Well, Topa isn’t human.
It does contradict your other complaint. Your praising the show that does exactly what you said you don’t want, and complaining about the show that does exactly what you supposedly want to see. Relegating LGBTQ issues to alien allegories is erasure.
A human utopia involves everyone being treated equally,
Which DIS does. Stamets and Culber are treated normally.
so when you imply different treatment, whether through dialog choices or cinematography
DIS doesn’t do this. There’s no hidden subtext which suggests they’re different. Not once are they ever discriminated against, even by the evil empress from the racist universe. I’m literally baffled how you think otherwise. I think your own phobias are making you see something that isn’t there.
GuyFleegman@startrek.website 10 months ago
I’m pretty lukewarm on Discovery, I’ve seen all of it but most episodes only once, so maybe I just don’t remember it. Who got bent out of shape over Stamets and/or Culber being gay?
Corgana@startrek.website 10 months ago
teenage redditors
acockworkorange@mander.xyz 10 months ago
There was a multi episode story arc about a teenager (forgot her name, had a teenage boyfriend and got adopted by Stamets/Cullen) coming out as non binary and choosing they as their pronoun.
It was very heavy handed on drama, whereas if there was any internal consistency, there wouldn’t be any “coming out” at all because “staying in the closet” wouldn’t be a thing. The whole thing felt like having a Jane Austen dialogue in present Norway.
I would love to be able to say this was a one off occurrence, but pretty much all dialogue is heavy handed, with excessive drama not supported by the fiction. While TNG is rather under acted, DSC is heavily over acted. Out goes technobabble, in comes soap opera.
MrBadgey@startrek.website 10 months ago
This never happened. The only time it ever comes up was in a single 27 second conversation with Stamets in S3 which someone else linked. It was never brought up before or after this scene. This is literally the one and only time any LGBTQ issue have ever been discussed in all four seasons of DIS. I’m utterly baffled how this scene got twisted into some lengthy after school special in at least two people’s minds in this thread.
The scene that *actually *happened wasn’t even heavy handed. Adira basically states, “I prefer to be called they. I never felt like a she.” Stamets literally responds with just “okay” at which point they move on and never bring it up again. I think you need to question why your mind warped it in such an exaggerated, critical way.
meldrik@lemmy.wtf 10 months ago
Adira seemed very hesitant to tell Stamets, which I thought was silly. I might remember that wrong though.
acockworkorange@mander.xyz 10 months ago
Duly noted.
GuyFleegman@startrek.website 10 months ago
A multi episode story arc??"? You mean these 90 seconds? The only way this bit of character and relationship development could be less “heavy handed” would be if it didn’t happen at all.
acockworkorange@mander.xyz 10 months ago
Don’t be like that. We’re all discussing in good faith here.
Before that happens, Adira spends considerable time with the ghost boyfriend on how would that be received and goes through considerable angst processing it. Before even that it’s shown them in considerable anguish to come out to their boyfriend even.
Of that arc, the one thing well executed was the 90 seconds you pointed.
So yeah, most of it shouldn’t happen in a welcoming environment in the 25th century. Her adoptive parents had no issue being a gay couple adopting a teenager, in which universe would that teenager ever feel the need to hide their sexuality and insecurities from them? Why the anguish?
It’s pretty much established since TNG and DS9 that pansexuality is mainstream. In The Outcast, Riker was involved with a non binary alien; the episode wasn’t about the reactions (the crew was absolutely nonchalant about it), with Worf supporting Riker trying to rescue the alien that broke their social customs. You can still send a message with a good in universe justification.
There’s no in universe justification for Adira. She doesn’t come from a backwards culture, has crazy conservative parents, there’s no atavic crewmate around, no aliens taking offense… It’s a non conflict. It’s bad writing.
To be clear, it’s a message that needs to be on TV. But it’s a damn shame they did it so poorly when it could easily have been set up to actually create a conflict that would then be resolved. You need in universe bigots to show bigotry being overcomed.
Corgana@startrek.website 10 months ago
Are you sure it was in Disco? I’ve seen Disco twice and don’t remember a character who was closeted. What episodes?
GuyFleegman@startrek.website 10 months ago
Seems like he’s talking about… Twilight?
MossyFeathers@pawb.social 10 months ago
Tbh I might have a unique way of processing fiction, because my brain seems to process it as, “I’m watching a future documentary” or “I’m watching future reality TV” or something. Like, these people have a camera crew or something following them around, so the camera crew is part of the act if that makes sense; so when the camera crew focuses on something, my brain interprets it as being important to the fictional future-history.
As such, while I don’t remember anyone actually being upset about them being gay in-universe, the fact that the camera crew seemed to like focusing on them being intimate makes my brain say, “this must be important to 23rd century humans in some way”.
Then again, I’m also not super into shows that feel like they spend too much time focusing on romantic relationships, so I might also be more critical that I should be as a result. If you’re gonna spend a bunch of time exploring a romantic relationship in a non-romance show, at least make it interesting. Maybe one of them is a cold-blooded lizardman and there’s some conflict about the temperature of the crew quarters or something.
Snowcano@startrek.website 10 months ago
Might I also suggest that another possibility is that until very recently, there has been so little gay representation on TV that merely depicting it at all, as Discovery has done, can feel jarring to some.
A friend of mine was complaining about the same thing back on Season 1, but I asked him if it had been a hetero couple shown brushing their teeth together or having a smooch would he have minded and he admitted probably not. We chalked it up to just not being used to seeing that with a gay couple on tv.
Just a thought.
MossyFeathers@pawb.social 10 months ago
I mean, I guess it’s possible. When it comes to my gender and sexuality, I’d say, “it’s complicated” because I’m not cishet, it’s just… complicated. Additionally I don’t tend to enjoy romance in media all that much to begin with, so it’s possible that I’m being more critical than I should. It’s just that gay relationships in media don’t bother me, it’s more when it feels “in my face” that I start to question the motivations behind it.
I guess the big thing is that if you’re happy with it, then cool! Something about it just felt off to me.
Taleya@aussie.zone 10 months ago
Meh, buffy casualised Willo & Tara existing as Queer a lot better than disc did…and that was a stride
askryan@startrek.website 10 months ago
Frankly, the scene that introduced Stamets and Culber together I think was intended to surprise the audience in a different way –– Stamets is a huge jerk the previous few episodes and set up as a semi-antagonist, and that bit shows him in a very different light, as the audience/Burnham starts to thaw on the Discovery crew.
GuyFleegman@startrek.website 10 months ago
That’s not a particularly unique perspective, many Trekkies choose to process Star Trek as “historical documents.” There’s a movie about it.
What I don’t understand why you’ve assigned this theoretical camera crew the intent of “get the camera on the gay dudes, stat” when “get the camera on the relationship between the two main characters” is a much simpler explanation. There are entire episodes dedicated to Odo & Kira, Paris & Torres or Trip & T’Pol relationship drama. Stamets & Culber screen time pales in comparison.
MossyFeathers@pawb.social 10 months ago
I’m not a huge fan of relationships in media to begin with (unless it’s somehow tied into the plot), so it’s possible I’m being more critical and skeptical than I should be. I’m not exactly cishet so I’m not sure that’s really it, but as someone else pointed out it’s still not super common for gay characters, especially male characters, to be shown as being romantically involved, which can be jarring when you’re not used to it. Dunno, it’s weird.
That’s kinda interesting, do you remember what the movie is called? I might watch it at some point.