And if you do, welcome to having an anxiety disorder
Comment on Was this guy at the store judging me?
eezeebee@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
Was he judging you? Most likely. Will he remember this interaction in 24 hours? Doubtful.
insomniac@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
Emperor@feddit.uk 7 months ago
30 minutes more like.
Today@lemm.ee 7 months ago
You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.
Emperor@feddit.uk 7 months ago
They just don’t care that much - they have hundreds of customer interactions a day and the only ones they’d even be likely to remember are the funny ones or where someone has been a complete anus.
During the pandemic I asked the woman at the checkout if she’d had a nice day and she turned her hollow eyes to me and said “a woman spat at me earlier because I told her we had run out of toilet roll” - she’s remembering that for a long time. A shop assistant directing a customer to the waiting rooms is not even bothering to file that in their memory.
Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
Speak for yourself, I judge other people hard… but I also judge myself 99% of the time… so they usually get off easy.