Comment on How should I find a good hair cut?

atlasraven31@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• alirezaaa@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’m very anxious of how I would look and don’t know which style would fit me.

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  • jmcs@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If it doesn’t fit you, you can either adjust it immediately if there’s still enough hair left, or it will grow in a couple of weeks if there’s not.

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    • alirezaaa@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Couple of weeks of looking silly sounds like torture for a person with already low self esteem :)

      But I will try your advice if I didn’t find anything better.

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      • amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyz ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Personally, I would try to realize others might respect you more for confident behavior like trying new hairstyles instead of ridicule you if the hairstyle isn’t the best for a few weeks.

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      • odium@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You can try wearing a hat for those weeks if it’s that bad.

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      • RBWells@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        If you know someone with good hair, ask where they get theirs done. And try not to worry.

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  • Aremel@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If it doesn’t look good, you can always go back to your old cut and then try again when your hair gets long enough.

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  • bananaw@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Preface: I’m US based, I don’t know how barbers work where you’re from.

    For me, finding a good barber includes having a conversation about what kind of things Im looking for. This can be as broad as “I don’t really know what fits me” or “I’m looking to go a bit longer so I can style it like this picture of a person with similar hair”.

    After a couple of cuts, if I trust the barber can combine what I’m asking for with their skillset along with what they think looks good, I’ll tell them something like “look, I trust your style. You can cut it however you think looks good”. Their job is to cut your hair, but more importantly cut it in a way that makes you happy so that you keep coming back. A good barber will listen to you and get you a good haircut that gives you confidence :)

    Good luck!

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