Comment on Another 62 ‘Girls Do Porn’ Victims Sue Pornhub for $600 Million
Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 year agoHonestly I’m running into that a lot with women, especially younger women. They all want to be “dominated” and it does nothing for me.
Comment on Another 62 ‘Girls Do Porn’ Victims Sue Pornhub for $600 Million
Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 year agoHonestly I’m running into that a lot with women, especially younger women. They all want to be “dominated” and it does nothing for me.
PM_ME_FEET_PICS@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
Consensual non-consent is also surprisingly common with younger women as well. Makes me very uncomfortable.
Default_Defect@midwest.social 1 year ago
Under no circumstances would I be comfortable if someone wanted me to simulate rape or being overly dominant.
Its at best not what I’m into and at worst a way to catch a court date if the other person is an especially shit human, never mind how it throws clear communication straight out of the window.
Krauerking@lemy.lol 1 year ago
No I’ve done it. Done properly it’s with full communication, clear limits, safe words and usually pre-setup and post aftercare which has been very cathartic and important time for my partners.
It’s totally fine if it’s not something you are into but done properly it’s not something that is outside of communicated carefully and shouldn’t be causing court issues cause it’s definitely not something to just do without precise communication.
I get that isn’t always reality but I just don’t want people to think it’s something that’s inherently only harmful.
Default_Defect@midwest.social 1 year ago
Being done properly and with clear communication would fall under my “at best” scenario with it just not being my thing, but your comment is important. I never meant to make it sound like BDSM is inherently “dangerous” or whatever.
Enigma@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
Right. The BDSM world has very strict rules. If you’re ever with a partner who “wants to try bdsm” without multiple conversations beforehand, then walk away. Aftercare is also a huge and important part of BDSM.
phx@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Been there, uh, didn’t do that because it’s fucking creepy. Also no hitting or calling me “daddy”, which is super creepy IMO