If you read my own recommendations in these comments, you’ll see you have every right to call me a hypocrite. I even went so far as to reference that list, if not link to it.

Wait, no, I mean “you are the bad parent here and you should feel bad.”

Let’s be real, there’s already too much of that going around just from the basic premise of OP’s request - from the word “go”, we were all going to have words for eachother.

That said, the one entry I called out is because that list got me to look it up - almost all of it to that point I found decent or at least excusable, although lists like it are probably what’s driven OP to ask for more personal recommendations.

The smartest thing I’ve done here is to suggest they make their own judgements, and you didn’t toss that list out without your own suggestion to accompany it, so keep your chin up.