That sounds not so nice. Is there an example out there or the like?
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HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world āØ11ā© āØhoursā© agoOkay, so a fair amount of what Iāve seen is bi erasure, and as far as nonbinary bigotry, itās pretty similar. Nonbinary folk donāt truly exist, whatever that means, and are either male or female kind of how bisexual folk are whatever their current relationship is. The womenās stuff community on blahaj professes to be Trans and nonbinary inclusive but if you are not explicitly female they will harass you with a candy coated āfuck off, you are not female enoughā. Not really seen much on else blahaj but have from blahaj users.
Complete AOL blast bullshit, but I figured it wouldnāt take Nazis long to take over blahaj. Itās the sort of thing theyād find funny.
mholiv@lemmy.world āØ10ā© āØhoursā© ago
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world āØ4ā© āØhoursā© ago
go hang out with them and experience it yourself. iām not digging through my bullshit,
mholiv@lemmy.world āØ3ā© āØhoursā© ago
I do hang out with them a lot. A lot of my favorite communities are there. I see no Nazi tolerance at all there let alone ātaking overā I also see none of this bigotry that you say is there. Contrarily, I see an active anti bigotry set of rules policies and guidelines in general.
I am willing to change my views on the instance but what you claim, I am just not seeing.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world āØ3ā© āØhoursā© ago
so like, all i can say is Iāve had conversations with my WASP mother about ableism. sheās an ableist fuck. she does not see it anywhere. trying to get her to see why putting the food that a slightest bit of cross-contamination will put me in the hospital right the fuck next to my dinner plate is not a microaggression but is in fact a macroaggression took years. Like, a fucking decade and we finally had to take it to a sparring ring and formally fight it out (we both have martial arts training but had until then never sparred each other. at the time i was skin, bones, and she had 70 pounds on me but i had a two belt advantage. healthy weight i have a 20 pound advantage. we agreed to throw real punches and kicks, we wore pads, went to 10 and i won by 5 points) and that was the only way i could get her to stop trying to poison me.
My point is: if itās not a bigotry that affects you directly, most people miss it entirely. Very very few people are sensitive to bigotry as a theme.
Jayjader@jlai.lu āØ2ā© āØhoursā© ago
Counterexample of one, but Iāve commented in womensstuff before as a genderfluid person and have not been asked to leave the space.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world āØ2ā© āØhoursā© ago
iāve commented several times, sometimes explicitly saying iām nonbinary, and their sexual harrassment bot repeatedly pings me. Iām now banned there because i lost my temper and said fuck off to the bot. after being sexually harassed by the bot. which, you know, is a normal response to being sexually harassed, but the instance admins like their premeditated sexual harassment bot, so the ban stands.