Kids raise themselves more than we give them credit for. Don’t be an asshole or abusive and set a good example even when you want to be lazy or rant or whatever cathartic but inappropriate behavior to which you might be predisposed.

I’ve lectured until the cows come home. I’ve yelled. I’ve patiently explained — none of that really matters. But every once in a while they will come and ask you a question. That is them acknowledging your experience or wisdom. Those are the moments you get to choose how they approach things. And even then it’s maybe 1 time in 50 anything sinks in.

I have five kids. Sometimes they amaze me with who they are. Other times they are all growing and figuring things out. Same as me.