Comment on A sudden epiphany.
NottaLottaOcelot@lemmy.ca 17 hours agoI also work in healthcare. The science was challenging, but achievable with effort. The hand skills took practice and repetition. But the people skills are truly never mastered.
I’ve been in my field for 17 years and it’s still a daily fire walk trying to avoid setting expectations too high, setting expectations too low, or somehow inadvertently inviting litigation with the wrong choice of words. The same verbiage doesn’t work on everyone, and you have about 20 seconds to decide which variation of unreasonable you have to sidestep on every person.
I feel like I am fortunate to have employment and not worry as much as many people about affording groceries and the mortgage. And yet, I really hope my children don’t choose patient care for their career.
Apytele@sh.itjust.works 17 hours ago
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Yeah 10 years and a dozen Daisy noms in and I still feel like my foot is constantly in my mouth. You have to walk this horrible tightrope of remembering this is the worst day of someone’s life then emotionally file it under your 400th Tuesday. The cognitive dissonance of that alone is enough to drive you bonkers.
maccentric@sh.itjust.works 12 hours ago
Daisy noms?
Apytele@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
System for writing thank you notes to a nurse. They give you a little enamel pin to put on your badge that I’m not comfortable possibly accidentally losing on an acute psych unit. Then about every quarter each hospital gives an award to one of the nominations. So like, objectively, at least a few of my patients feel cared for. It’s just hard to feel that way sometimes.
maccentric@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
Thanks for the info; I’d never heard of that.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
i have had a nurse i have wanted to thank for decades. i had no idea there was a formal system. how widespread is this? (is it just psych?)
themaninblack@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
I hope that someday if I need the care, that you are the one doing it. Thank you for being exceptional.