The pain aspect is something you should address. First with your partner if their technique can be changed, and second with your doctor. And this one is like a layer cake - maybe you’re ace, maybe there is emotional context (that could be entirely unrelated to your current situation) that causes physical discomfort, or possibly there’s a physical component that your doctor might be able to help you with. Or some combination of all of them, because people are complex.
But romantic asexuality is definitely a thing, as is a number of variants within it.
Viceversa@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
It’s painful?
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Am woman. Men who learn sex through porn think it’s ok to fuck us like we’re a slab of meat, and their penis is a merciless steel meat tenderizer, trying to fuck us until they until they kill us but thankfully they cum before they completely murder me. Actually I’ve gotten to the point I don’t even want the company of a man anymore.
Viceversa@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Wow, you have very bad luck with men, I’m so sorry.
Or is it a cultural phenomenon? Where are you from?
DaGreenGobbo@feddit.uk 2 weeks ago
Hey, that’s not fair! I don’t take pleasure.