It’s painful?
Comment on my ideal relationship
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 21 hours agoAw yeah now that you put it that way, I actually prefer cuddling, could live without the slimy sweaty painful pounding. We need a third option up there for just romance & spooning with clothes on please.
Viceversa@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Am woman. Men who learn sex through porn think it’s ok to fuck us like we’re a slab of meat, and their penis is a merciless steel meat tenderizer, trying to fuck us until they until they kill us but thankfully they cum before they completely murder me. Actually I’ve gotten to the point I don’t even want the company of a man anymore.
Viceversa@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Wow, you have very bad luck with men, I’m so sorry.
Or is it a cultural phenomenon? Where are you from?DaGreenGobbo@feddit.uk 13 hours ago
Hey, that’s not fair! I don’t take pleasure.
Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 17 hours ago
The pain aspect is something you should address. First with your partner if their technique can be changed, and second with your doctor. And this one is like a layer cake - maybe you’re ace, maybe there is emotional context (that could be entirely unrelated to your current situation) that causes physical discomfort, or possibly there’s a physical component that your doctor might be able to help you with. Or some combination of all of them, because people are complex.
But romantic asexuality is definitely a thing, as is a number of variants within it.