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Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

Friendly reminder for my fellow aces out there that the sex circle just means compatibility not necessarily actually having sex. If both of you are cool without doing the Horizontal Mambo, then that means you fulfill the sex circle.

My wife and I have been married 8 years this July and we haven’t had sex since we conceived our twins who turn 6 this summer. I love her to bits, she’s my best friend. I’m just ace and she’s almost exclusively sexually attracted to women.

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Tonava@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Yeah, me and my partner have been together for over ten years. We’re both ace, so sex hasn’t been on the table from the start and we’re both fine with it. Though I’m aro too, so who the fuck even knows how this works - but hey it does, so who cares.

You really don’t need to follow some stupid norms about how relationships should be

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- Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Right? Who even knows at this point? My partner and I even sometimes call our arrangement “Friends With (Tax) Benefits” as a joke. lmao xD
  
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SmoothOperator@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Fascinating setup. Does she have sex with women outside your marriage, if I may be so forward?

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- Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Neither of us is opposed to the idea per se, but between some issues with her health and us taking care of our kids she doesn’t really feel like looking if that makes sense?
  
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  - SmoothOperator@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    It does, thanks for sharing. Wishing her good health!
    
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