But what’s sexy for a woman? I feel like most sexy male lingerie is still designed for the male gaze.
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tabris@lemmy.world 20 hours agoI’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: straight men are allowed to buy and wear sexy undies to both look and feel good. If you’re looking to upgrade your nethers, go to a gay underwear specialist, we have the best underwear.
HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 12 hours ago
rbos@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
I got a coupla these a while back. Very comfy. www.bn3th.ca
Little bit of maplewashing going on there but hey.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Sure.
I had this discussion with the girl I’m dating. She’s bi.
A mass majority of men do not understand that there is no aesthetically pleasing part to the male body. Definitely not the penis, and definitely not freaky huge muscles. That doesn’t feel safe, that feels intimidating.
Bassman27@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Way to promote body positivity!
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Weird. The bi women I’ve dated have all spoken glowingly about certain body parts of men, while my gay ass was just like “good to know”. The one ex found uncircumcised dicks hot as all get out. Another found both twinky guys and hairy masculine guys super hot, but mostly she just loved a good ass no matter who it was on.
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 2 hours ago
From experience bi/pan women like good asses and a strong upper body or tits in the case of women. Its probably because they are attracted to those features on a sexual level and those are features that are possible on both men and women. On the other there are comments that said that their bi girlfriends were also attracted to much more masculine features as well so i guess this theory doesnt hold up that well. Also just in general i think a good ass is the best feature to put your points into, many straight and bi women and many gay men like em.
no_circumlocution@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
As a gay man, I cannot express how much I disagree.
wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 18 hours ago
Name checks out.
wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 18 hours ago
I just wear women’s lingerie to show them up.