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• SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  while i also find it funny that the roles are reversed int his instance, saying that abuse is not that deep is… questionable

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  • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sane people, in my internet?!

    Abuse sucks in general, there is more domestic violence and sexual abuse done to women than to men, lots of traditional Muslim countries have very traditional (male-favouring) gender roles, subverting expectations can be funny. What more is there to say?

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    • SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      what more is there to say

      that the ironic subversion of expectations is not an excuse to call abuse “not that deep”

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      • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        No, of course not, I was only referring to the initial post.

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• kshade@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  it’s not that deep

  Says the one who has to put layers upon layers of context over the simple statement “domestic violence is bad” to justify it actually being good if one gender does it.

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  • Silly@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    “layers of justification” and all I said was the fact that most men are shitty

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    • timestatic@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yay its totally fine when its misandry. Have you met most men?

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• Gladaed@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  In part yes, but also make sure to communicate empathy, support and resources while joking.

  It ain’t no joking matter. But some boundaries must be crossed both to deliver change and stand the tyranny of reality.

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