tyyy
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Manticore@lemmy.nz 3 weeks ago
Tbf she made zero effort to converse with OOP either
diffaldo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
Perfect match!
rumba@lemmy.zip 3 weeks ago
Hmm, ty
no, that’s to disinterested ^H^H
TY!
ohh, no that’s way too enthusiatic ^H^H^H
Ty
Now that just looks like a name ^H^H
Hey Grok, this person on the dating website said Hii \n Cool hair what should I send back? I want to sound slightly interested, but almost dismissive, like they need to prove that I’m worth their time, but so far I just said Hey
Grok: have you considered saying thank you?
eww, whole words? I’m not a geriatric
Grok: perhaps you could say ty
god, you’re not help, i already thought if that but i’m afraid it makes me sound too disinterested
Grok: Have you tried photoshopping their head onto a nude photo? I can help you…
god grok, you’re so useless, i’m just going to post tyyy, so it sounds like i’m saying thank yooooouuuu! like I mean it but in the least number of characters so it doesn’t sound like I mean it too much.
–probably
markovs_gun@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
This is the bumble experience lol. The man still has to do the real first message because the woman’s first message is going to be “hey” 99% of the time.
ptu@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
As a man I also sent just hi to everyone. Reasoning behind that was that if there is any interest, they would reply with something. Like a ping. When we’d get to know better I could be more personal. Found a great partner this way, we’ve been together for 5 years now.
SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
I had a formula: “Hi!”, my real first name, a brief mention and open-ended question about something I found interesting on their profile, then closing with something like “Online dating can be a lot. I’d love to hear from you, but only when you’re ready. No pressure. I hope you have a great day.”
So about four sentences. It took me like two minutes. I got about 1 response in 10 instead of over 1:30 that way, at least from women. Success!
I then proceeded to have all of the worst dates I’ve ever been on. One person showed up on shrooms, a woman interrogated me about marriage and children within ten minutes of meeting, another seemed to be fabricating their entire life story on the spot… and more! There were good dates too, but soooo much bad.
MeThisGuy@feddit.nl 3 weeks ago
hey, shrooms dates can be a way to get to know someone real quick, good or bad