I feel that, in theory I’m mostly the same, but it’s the traumatic events that really deliver the haymaker and get under my defences unfortunately. Things slowly taking away my ability to function won’t kill me, but they do make the big events more powerful over me.
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sqw@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days ago
what has worked for me is the idea that there are certain unassailable aspects of living that i still enjoy. simplifying my life to maximize those while cutting out stuff that is contingent, undependable, etc is the goal i strive for. with relationships for me, the attitude i take is “hang on tightly, let go lightly”.
Baggie@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
HubertManne@piefed.social 3 days ago
I feel this. If there is one thing is that many things really become obviously unimportant and it is easier to see what is important.