My regret is having kids later in life and not in my early 20’s.
Reeks of boomer who doesn’t appreciate their kids.
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whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 days agoYes.
I was watching a YouTube video yesterday with Jimmy Carr and I think he summarized it perfectly.
As humans we are amazing at quantifying all the negatives around having kids (costs, time constraints, behaviour changes) but we struggle at quantifying the positives (purpose, accountability, pride, humility).
My regret is having kids later in life and not in my early 20’s. The little secret we all know is you’re never ready for kids. You either dive in or you don’t. After that? In for a penny, in for a pound.
AtariDump@lemmy.world 3 days ago
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 days ago
GenX actually (48) and I have 3 kids I tell them I love them daily. 2 are on the spectrum and 1 realistically will never become an independent adult.
Your comment reeks of someone who grew up entitled and has never learned how to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.
Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
AtariDump@lemmy.world 1 day ago
The downvotes tell a diffeeent story, boomer.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
You do realize that upvotes/downvotes are just populism in action and time and time again people have been proven to be dumb? I mean look at America.
TheBat@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Cool. I disagree. You want to subject your kids to climate change then go ahead.
FosterMolasses@leminal.space 3 days ago
Climate change is going to be the least of the next generation’s worries.
At least they won’t freeze to death outside in winter when likely none of them will have houses, jobs or access to healthcare (aside from the ones with access to inheritance of course).
Climate change alone is an absurd reason to advocate for antinatalism.
TheBat@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Spoken like someone who has no idea what’s going on. Temps are already above 36°C where I live. Rains have gotten unpredictable as well and that is impacting food
I can only guess how damn hard it will be in the next 20 years.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 days ago
And we are allowed to disagree. That doesn’t however make your opinion any more valid. You can’t hold hands when you make fists.
TheBat@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Present and imminent state of the world make my opinion valid.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 days ago
The world has always been fucked. The question is do you bend over and take it or do you fight for positive change?