The reality you live in and the one I do are quite different. I don’t find it hard to understand why you have so much time to spend on other people not understanding your drivel right after the holidays. You might not understand this but; this is a social platform where you may comment and others may or may not disagree with you. If you have anything further to add; don’t. There isn’t anything to gain from having a “conversation” with you and replying to your psychobabble is something I mistakenly did but is time for your therapist to take over.