I don’t think that’s really true. I think that rape isn’t talked about much in comparison to the kinds of consensual sex people get shamed for, and that’s being mistaken for a lack of shame.

The ultimate expression of what society deems worthy of shame is what is illegal. You might rightly point out the abysmal conviction rates for rape in many countries, yet whatever it is where you are, I’m sure it’s higher than the conviction rate for women having consensual sex.