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Emi@ani.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I suggest to just talk with people online using social media and social networks, try to not use tinder because it’s based on the loom and IMO ot’s a toxic thing. For example i know a lot of funny people from discord

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  • kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The problem with discord is that it’s also filled with a lot of very weird children

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    • Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Stay away from communities that allow childrens, there are plenty that are adulta only, for example a friend of mine run one

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  • Emi@ani.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Ten problém is on discord they usually live on other side of the world.

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    • Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Search local communities

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      • SaberKazd@sopuli.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        You had my curiosity, but now you have my attention. I’m not well versed in discord, how exactly does one look for local communities?

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• Verdorrterpunkt@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Have you ever applied for jobs? I think dating apps are somehwat comparably demotivating. Just be sure you can handle it.

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• Asafum@feddit.nl ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Try if you must, but as a guy after 10 years on and off these dating sites I just completely gave up. It’s like a constant attack on your self worth and for me I just ended up feeling absolutely pathetic and worthless. I’m still lonely but I feel better than getting ignored constantly and literally only getting likes/messages from bots that want to scam you.

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• Contramuffin@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Pro tip: don’t. It’ll make you feel worse than if you just isolated yourself.

  The incentive structure of dating apps is completely twisted and makes you feel like every part of yourself is getting commodified and ranked.

  Find some social groups or clubs and go hang out there. You’ll have a much better time. Many people don’t mind if you aren’t comfortable with communicating, just being present is a positive in their book.

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