Comment on Is it gay to have pleasurable sex with your wife?
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 weeks agoI had a husband like that once. Three babies but never an orgasm.
Comment on Is it gay to have pleasurable sex with your wife?
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 weeks agoI had a husband like that once. Three babies but never an orgasm.
ZC3rr0r@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
Please feel free to ignore this if you’re not comfortable talking about this with strangers on the internet, but I’ve always wondered what keeps people persisting in a relationship like that. It’s easy for me to say, but I’d imagine having sex would definitely stop being appealing if it’s a one-sided affair. Not sure if I’d have the fortitude to put up with that to such an extent it’d result in three kids.
Please enlighten me if you can, I’m honestly hoping to learn what mindset or circumstances got you to this point.
LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Religion & being a housewife with no financial leverage to escape.
Until I fixed all that. Now he’s been my EX-husband for 14 years.
ZC3rr0r@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
Glad to hear you managed to get away from that situation, and thank you for sharing. I appreciate learning about things like this, and to see that empowerment enabled you to take active control of your life.