In my mind, many active homophobes are secretly bisexual. They’ll say its a choice. Which we all know its not.
Bisexuals are the only ones who actually do have “the choice” to be gay or not to be gay. (Inb4 pansexual reverse heteropref transmasc because I dont have the brainpower for that many fields on the chart).
tdawg@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
In my experience most of them are just straight up gay. The choice thing is more rhetoric imo
MotoAsh@piefed.social 18 hours ago
I’d say most are queer, not gay. It’s unfortunate that society pushes queer men in to the gay umbrella because most people don’t understand the damn spectrum.
tdawg@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Fair. I’m more thinking historically and queer is a new idea (or framing anyway)