And? I do my groceries by foot or bicycle and it goes just fine. Same with public transit. There’s also home delivery, that goes by bicyclists.
Groceries are mostly doable I’d say. But what if you need a larger or heavier item? Don’t get me wrong, I’d like to get rid of the car and am bicyclist myself, but realistically? Between bad weather (while rain can be done, it is not a very pleasant experience, moreover when it’s cold as well), shit public transport and more complicated payloads and such, it quickly gets complicated. And all the kudos to you if that works for you, honestly.
FishFace@piefed.social 15 hours ago
Given that I said I used to do groceries by bike but mentioned some changes, this isn’t worth very much without saying how many people you’re buying for, and how often. If you’re willing to go shopping every other day, or are only buying for yourself, it’s quite different than if you’re trying to minimise the number of trips and/or are buying for more people, isn’t it?
I didn’t say they were shit. For many purposes they are quite reasonable. But they are still a schedule, and the difference between getting to the bus stop at the right time to catch your bus versus a minute after it left is really annoying, meaning you have to be a lot stricter about when you leave your home and when you leave whatever it is you’re doing. It’s distracting and anxiety-inducing.
Fuck off. Seriously go and think about what you just said to someone you know nothing about and what your goals are from this conversation.
Then why don’t you talk about it from your own perspective, rather than telling other people how amazing cycling will be for them? You’d be less annoying and probably convince more people to cycle that way, too.
If I were to reply to your concerns about driving in the way you speak about cycling and public transport, I’d say something like, “you just need to check out where to park before you go” (you know, like you do bus stops); “if people are honking it’s because of a toxic culture that causes them to take their anger out audibly” (as if, like your comment on bad public transport, that makes it any better); “if your fuel and maintenance costs are bad, you just need to get a good car”. As you can appreciate, none of those response are reasonable - in the same way you’re being unreasonable.
I prefer biking too - when it’s reasonable. I do not prefer public transport to driving, except in limited circumstances.
birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 hours ago
My parents did it the same way as I do, doing so for a family of six. Longtail bike or cargo tricycle with a few bags, and then you go. Works just fine, whether once every other day or every week. I did this for them and siblings as well.
Buying for only myself, I do it every other day.
For the bus lines, you just leave a few min in advance. And does the car not have a same (looking for parking spots), if not more stressful issue, by having to focus while driving as well?
Being civil on the internet seems like a lost art. I know what I say. I bicycle everyday. Now, could you be so kind to behave like a normal person and not be rude, thank you.
I did. And you can be less annoying by not saying “fuck off”.
Except that fuel costs are still higher going by car than by bike or bus. You’re paying to travel with a multiple-tonne vehicle for up to 6 people, probably only carrying one or two at a time – while a bus carries much more. I think you are the one being unreasonable here with your rudeness.
FishFace@piefed.social 15 hours ago
You just told me I need to get better at cycling in order to to allay my concerns at potentially falling off while carrying something fragile and precious, and can’t even see that that is inappropriate.
So, no, you can still fuck all the way off until you grow the ability to empathise with other people.
birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 hours ago
Yeah, so what. If you cannot accept that you need to improve, and react with “fuck off”, then I think you’re the problem.