Open garbage can > Look in > Mostly garbage.
How very insightful of you, mate.
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frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months agoTry an experiment: go on Fetlife and setup a profile as a fem. Start collecting DMs. It might be enlightening.
And by your own definition, you’re also the worst.
Yes, you’re very smart.
Ifera@lemmy.world 5 months ago
frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months ago
Funny how I never seem to have these issues with fems and non-binary people. Even the ones who grew up masc. In fact, most of the problems there are a direct result of really shitty behavior from men and trying to cope with it.
Instead of going “not all men”, maybe try to point out shitty behavior? Maybe one day, we can get past all this.
dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 5 months ago
The point is, if 10% of guys in a given population are unspeakably awful, that’s the 10% who you will hear from on a dating app. You don’t get that from fems because they are typically being pursued on all dating and social media apps, because we still largely hold to the cultural norm that men/masc presenting people are responsible for asking the other person out.
It seems worse on Grindr because the majority of users are cis men-the very people who have been told since birth that it’s their job to pursue sexual connections. Of course that leads to poor behavior.
rishado@lemmy.world 5 months ago
There’s no winning with you. You argue with the same logic as a trump supporter.
Ifera@lemmy.world 5 months ago
I point out shitty behavior, no matter the source. Hence why I am pointing out your very shitty behavior, that you’re too biased to even comprehend.
frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months ago
You sound like the reason women choose the bear.
turdcollector69@lemmy.world 5 months ago
I’d bet any amount of money that they would respond to any criticism of men with a 5,000 page dissertation but any criticism of women would just get an upvote.
Lemmy is, for better or worse, much like early 2010’s reddit. You’ve got a generally left leaning vibe with intense neckbeard bullshit mixed in.
frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months ago
Yeah, and they don’t even have a clue how clueless they are.
Ifera@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Super easy to assume when you’re no actually betting. Or finding a 5,000 page dissertation. But of course, moving the goalposts, claiming it was a hyperbole, grandstanding and virtue signaling without actually checking yourself for biases is all what most people do, on any end of the sociopolitical spectrum.
And tagging anything you disagree with as neckbeard, incel and other derrogative, thought ending cliches, while defending blanket statements about entire groups of people, hard to believe the cognitive dissonance doesn’t make more people uncomfortable.
turdcollector69@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Getting wildly offended on behalf of neckbeards and incels the the point of posting a 4 paragraph rant really isn’t helping you beat the 50 billion page accusation.
It also really doesn’t help that reading it while doing a Ben Shapiro impression is extremely funny.