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Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people?

Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

Why don’t you tell these two “experts” to shut up and leave me alone? Do you really need a boss for that?

It’s the company’s duty to provide you a workplace.

It’s not the company’s duty to provide you a workplace where all people are perfect.

So you are trying to play the entitled one here. And I am sure that is not going to be successful.

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vestmoria@linux.community ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

Why don’t you tell these two “experts” to shut up and leave me alone?

I don’t know if each workplace is like this, but at my hospital people are very, extremely thin skinned and if somebody feels offended because I prefer to keep to myself and to learn instead of talking about their boring lives they start acting like teenagers: he is unfriendly, he doesn’t talk to me, he thinks he is better than me, can you believe that? and much worse stuff. It’s usually a minority but this minority is large enough so most of the neutral ones within the group are cowed into saying nothing, because otherwise they’re the ones being talked about and suddenly considered not a team player, not a good employee…

very sad but true.

It doesn’t make sense to work in a group that behaves like this, not worth my peace of mind.

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- Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  
  he thinks he is better than me, can you believe that?
  
  Yes, absolutely. Quiet people often give this impression.
  
  they start acting like teenagers
  
  No, they are reacting in a normal way (one of many normal ways).
  
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