Check your communities, and what instances they’re on. Not all are created equal. lemmy.ml tends to be pretty wacko

“Hey y’all, anyone feeling hostility on Lemmy”

“Yeah, let me tell you what, fuck those fuckers over there. They fucking suck and I hope they rot.”

Like, how do you not immediately block everyone on lemmy.ca after reading this shit?

I also find lemmy.ca quite friendly,

Sure, if you ignore the assholes who pop into other communities to take a colossal shit on them.