Unfortunately it sounds to me like you are too sensitive to be a regular poster in any community, if an offhanded half-joking comment that wasn’t even aimed at you is offending you to this degree.
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Dagnet@lemmy.world 3 weeks agoWay too aggressive for a “minor annoyance” but don’t worry, between your comment and the other guy telling me not post here again I won’t bother with such a toxic community
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Dagnet@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
There are many ways to give feedback, calling someone filthy is not close to the better ones, a simple “I really dislike when a post is only a screenshot, makes it hard to see. OP, you should try to write down what is in the screenshot too”. For a tiny community like Lemmy, we should be doing everything we can to incentivize posters whenever we can.
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
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I’m not engaging with this argument about constructive criticism. Welcome to the internet. Hope you can get used to it.
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Getting upset and threatening to leave and take your toys with you. That is what you did. Nobody (in the royal/aggregate sense, not the literal sense) gaf.
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I mean, no, they literally didn’t aim it at you, and they also literally did not admit to doing so.
I would, personally, rather you stop posting, since your behaviour just kinda seems to be “unable to handle the pressures of the internet” to the point of causing and escalating non-issues to inflammatory arguments.
Dagnet@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
“The internet sucks and if you want it to be better that means you are childish. Look how cool I am”
He literally posted earlier apologizing, admitting to being too harsh. But you know more than the commenter himself, ofc
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aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
Don’t give up. Unfortunately some people are utter shitheads, even on lemmy. I appreciated your post :3
Dagnet@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’m good, thank you for your comment though. I’m getting downvoted left and right even though I had to go into a discord server to get this news, not even reddit had any posts about it when I checked. Stuff like this is why Lemmy won’t grow, no constructive criticism, just calling OP names if I don’t follow some unspoken rule (also, they are ignoring rule 1 of the community) on my first post of this type here. I don’t get anything by going out of my way to bring news here, why should I bother if people are gonna complain like that?
warmaster@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I agree that being called filthy anything is harsh, independently if it was unintentional, form is an important part of good etiquette.
Thank you for sharing this news. Keep it coming!