I didn’t say sex doesn’t happen in real life. I said you watch too much porn.
The mind of a man who thinks that a random girl tagging along with a potential first date will agree to have a threesome let alone the first date themselves will agree to normal sex is… a young naive mind who believes that everyone is having spontaneous group sex.
As someone who had a threesome exactly like this scenario played out.
You’re the one who is naive.
Spontaneous group sex happens in real life, all the time. There are many people who do not seek it out. That is valid. There are also people who do seek it out.
Unfortunately the difference between those two types of people defines the lens through which you define a “naive” person.
Hey man just because you got a threesome doesn’t mean its common.
Spontaneous group happens in real life -> I agree.
All the time -> I don’t agree
There are people who seek it out
But that doesn’t mean they get it “all the time”
Unfortunately the difference between those two types of people defines the lens through which you define a “naive” person.
And your lens is too much caliberated to view every encounter as an opportunity even if you don’t know whether the OP is actually into it or not, thus projecting your expectations into the scenario.
maximumbird@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Found the person that’s never had a threesome
Sex does happen in real life, too.
MadhuGururajan@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
I didn’t say sex doesn’t happen in real life. I said you watch too much porn.
The mind of a man who thinks that a random girl tagging along with a potential first date will agree to have a threesome let alone the first date themselves will agree to normal sex is… a young naive mind who believes that everyone is having spontaneous group sex.
Your mind immediately went to that? Why?
maximumbird@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
From my POV
As someone who had a threesome exactly like this scenario played out.
You’re the one who is naive.
Spontaneous group sex happens in real life, all the time. There are many people who do not seek it out. That is valid. There are also people who do seek it out.
Unfortunately the difference between those two types of people defines the lens through which you define a “naive” person.
MadhuGururajan@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
Hey man just because you got a threesome doesn’t mean its common.
Spontaneous group happens in real life -> I agree.
All the time -> I don’t agree
But that doesn’t mean they get it “all the time”
And your lens is too much caliberated to view every encounter as an opportunity even if you don’t know whether the OP is actually into it or not, thus projecting your expectations into the scenario.