I met my wife twenty years ago, when I was 22 and she was 37. We had similar interests, liked each others personalities, and found each other attractive.

We also are friends with a couple with the same age gap, younger husband who’s the same age as my wife, and another couple with the same gap with the younger wife my age, all with stable, decades-long marriages. Compatible people are compatible; age just measures how long you’ve been on this rock.