It was how my family treated my partner that finally helped me snap. No contact for a decade. Fuck those assholes. They never learn and have no respect to for others. I would hope a good partner would take notice of how their family is.

I don’t understand why people put up with shitty family amd pretend to have common values or interests. What a waste of your precious life.

In OPs case, I’d straight up tell them they know exactly what they’re doing, and if they were mature and respectful, they would stop.

If they don’t, fucking leave.

Best thing I ever learned from someone else:

Would I associate with these people if they weren’t blood?