Completely agree. Dad is totally overstepping here, it’s none of his business whether OP arranges dates or not.
I’d refuse to go on the date out of general principle.
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HiddenLychee@lemmy.world 7 months ago
These comments are weird AF to me. If I was your age and my dad gave me a “no objections” blind date, I’d fuck off right then. Personally because I never wanted my parents to meddle in my love life, but I would also not talk about it with them.
If you want to go on random dates with women for the sake of it, and you’re okay reinforcing this behavior from your dad, sure do it. Make sure you spend a shit ton of money so he thinks twice next time he gives you a “no objections” obligation.
But if you have no interest in blind dating I don’t see a reason why you should do it.
sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Steamymoomilk@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
Agreed, if you want a relationship with somebody you should be the one to seek them out. Not let mommy and daddy setup a date for you.
And i feel you are not the only person whoms parents are a little to nosey. Ive been in 4 relationships and they all ended up not working out. Purely because my parents are a bit of a handful and are just a tad overbearing, aswell as extremely pious.
Life is not an anime/hallmark movie. Your not gonna get text message or phone call from a random stranger thats madly in love with you. Which if that does happen there probably batshit crazy and you should touch them with a 10 foot pole. But i digress, people need to learn how to interact with other people rather if thats a romantic sense or a friendship. In any healthy relationship it requires work, from both partys.
And REMEMBER FELLAS, dont put your steamed hams in crazy 👌👌👌```