Comment on We dont talk about love no more because we are weak bitches.
Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week agoA game im not prepared to play?
How do I even respond to that? Im talking about love. You’re immediately concerned with the books. Tell me, how do you budget love. Would you look at your son and say, “I am your shield and your sword but it comes at a cost.” If thats the case I need you to learn what love is.
insomniac_lemon@lemmy.cafe 1 week ago
The royal you.
I was not really talking about family, but that is still a thing. A child may feel unloved because their parent(s) spend too much time working, or because of conditions they are forced to endure. Even if the parents are doing their best.
Needing to “learn” what love is, completely in-line with what I’m saying though. Specifically because having love and finding love are vastly different. Also a whole lot more blocking factors for finding, different situations.
Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Blah blah blah. Minimize, pontificating, deflect. Im not debating you bro.
Love is love. Stop gatekeeping.
insomniac_lemon@lemmy.cafe 1 week ago
Not sure what you think I’m arguing, I’m just talking in the context of the loneliness epidemic.
Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
The loneliness epidemic is spurred on by people who fundamentally dont understand how to love. They do exactly what you do. They look at money. They look at culture. They look at class. They look at status.
They dont look at their own feelings of love and try to understand what it is.