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null@lemmy.nullspace.lol 2 weeks agoSo should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one?
Literally yes.
Will he not be offended?
If he’s offended by open, clear communication, that’s a good sign you shouldn’t continue trying to be friends anyways.
arumi@endlesstalk.org 2 weeks ago
Why should I not continue being friends with him and only meet on social occasions where our other mutual friends are also present, just like the old times? Breaking up a friendship over nothing?
naught101@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I would say someone getting offended by you communicating is not “nothing”. At least it would be a problem for me.
arumi@endlesstalk.org 2 weeks ago
Makes sense. I’ll try to communicate it with him respectfully
null@lemmy.nullspace.lol 2 weeks ago
Him being offended enough for it to be a problem by you asking a clear, good faith question isn’t “over nothing”.