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MomoGajo@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• hisao@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Easier said than done.

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  • MomoGajo@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Yes, but it is a step. It could be as simple as learning more about an animal or even a tv show. Fan spaces can be anywhere. Libraries exist and frequently have free activities for people to attend. I’m not saying it’s easy, but having something to talk about is better than nothing.

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    • hisao@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      No I mean, it’s easy to have interests, but hard to find people with similar interests, and 100x more hard in hookup context. But if you mean getting new hobbies based on what is available in some local circles just for the sake of socializing there, that could work I guess, but it does feel off somehow. I mean, you’re probably not genuinely interested in that and you have enough of your own interests and only pretending just for the sake of socializing/hookups.

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      • MomoGajo@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I agree your going to find it hard to be interested solely for hookups. But if you focus on what is available around you, you may find something new that you like. As well as, have an opportunity to meet new people. I also feel if you are going only to hookup with someone you are cheating yourself out of what could be a full experience. Focus on the event, enjoying yourself, and meeting new people; if you do that you’ll naturally meet people who may want to hookup witb you.

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