Comment on Women Dating Safety App 'Tea' Breached, Users' IDs Posted to 4chan
wizbiz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 days ago“gossip” is for safety. It’s often information that men don’t shared so it’s painted like it’s bad. Claiming women shouldn’t gossip is just more misogyny.
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 days ago
There is some of that happening, like when women get together and discuss how they’re being treated it’s “gossip” and inherently immoral.
I think some men might read what you’ve said and think you are denying any toxic gossip exists, it’s important to have nuance and not alienate men who otherwise would be allies, but I think overall your point is well taken.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 days ago
Say a woman breaks up with a man for petty reasons, like the guy switching the channel on TV, or even the other way around.
And she decides to make up reprehensible shit about him on that app.
He essentialy becomes undatable, and he does not know why.
otp@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
I’m not sure what that has to do with the comment above yours, but you’re comparing men becoming “essentialy undatable” to women being raped. Perhaps unknowingly.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 days ago
Ok fine. Dark Voice “Sacrifice the men! It’s for the greater good!”
Though I am unironically anti-natalist, and misanthropic, so everyone being single (or well, gay/lesbian) is fine with me personally.