It makes sense using it for safety, but I would worry about whether all the information on there is accurate. Most of the feedback on the app is probably negative, I doubt anyone would really post anything on Tea that’s positive about their former partner. But people like to believe they are in the right. Someone who got in a fight with their partner might post something on Tea that isn’t accurate, but makes them feel better since they can spin the story how they want, and make the other person at fault. However, unlike regular social media, the person being attacked by their partner on Tea has no idea that it happened, and no way to refute what was said. It promotes the opposite of any type of communication between partners after a fight or breakup. It promotes safety, but at the same time it promotes some toxicity in relationships. What would you think if you knew that if your got into a disagreement with your partner that you could end up posted on this app, without any way of arguing back?
Comment on Women Dating Safety App 'Tea' Breached, Users' IDs Posted to 4chan
Zomg@piefed.world 21 hours agoI think it depends on people's intent and purpose for using this service. I'm overall not a fan of someone taking and sharing pictures of me without my consent, or making claims that can't be defended...
The group of women legitimately using it for safety is fine, in a general sense.
The group of women using it as gossip and entertainment is not.
lunardroid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 hours ago
DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 20 hours ago
Considering that “tea” is common slang for gossip I’m not convinced there was many of the latter.
Revan343@lemmy.ca 15 hours ago
Given that the app name is slang for gossip, you’re not convinced there were many women using it for gossip?
DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 15 hours ago
Thanks I fixed it