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God1st@lemmy.zip 4 hours agoA couple things. My status in life such as job and living situation. My confidence to approach women although that’s getting fined tuned lately. My physical appearance of being out of shape. That’s all I can think of rn. Actually never been in a relationship before
Actually never been in a relationship before
You need to be bad at something before you’re good at something, in almost every thing in life. You have to go thru bad relationships before you’ll understand what’s a good one. Just be willing to learn and end things when it’s time.
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
You’d be surprised how little most people actually care about most of that stuff.
Practice talking to people especially women. Ask a random person at the grocery store what kind of spaghetti sauce they recommend. If you’re awkward, who cares? If they think anything bad about you because of it, you never have to see them again. People aren’t as scary as we make them out to be. It’s just that inner monologue that makes you doubt yourself.