I'm all for people being able to bone other consenting adults, married or not, but these two clearly think that cheating is bad. If they had open relationships, then why would they care if they were seen together?
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interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months agoIt’s ragebait for people who think porking rights should be exclusive by default. And by that I mean nasty horrible idiots. Abolish marriage!
piefood@feddit.online 2 months ago
Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Toxic polyamory is just as bad as toxic monogamy. If people want to be exclusive they should be exclusive. If your partner wants to be exclusive and you don’t, and you choose to cheat, you’re still a piece of shit.
TimeNaan@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I wanted to ask if you’re ok there but then I saw lemmy.ml and everything made sense all of a sudden.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
that’s brain rot thinking, you know that’s just the default and instance and therefore cannot mean anything that you think it does This is the kind of generalization behind a lot of evil in the world
TimeNaan@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It’s an echochamber with all dissent being suppressed. The way you write shows you’re deeply stuck in it.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
But I"m not “there” to me the local tab is meaningless, I don’t even know on what server we are having this discussion besides “the lemmiverse” So stop it with the digital provincialism !
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
I just expressed a maximally dissenting opinion on marriage and yet, the message still stands … Who are those dissenters that you imagine are getting suppressed on whatever that server is?
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The problem isn’t the lack of monogamy, it’s the violation of your partner(‘)(s)(’) trust.
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Uhhh, if you donpt like marriage, how about don’t get married?! This isn’t rocket science… They both got married. They both signed the social contract that by default means exclusivity, regardless of what you think.
grrgyle@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
Even married, you can have an honest discussion with your spouse about seeing other people (preferably before you get married), then just tell them you’re going to see Coleplay with your work girlfriend. Like it’s not illegal, and it’s not even wrong unless you make it wrong by being a shady little shit about it.
Just like fuckin… talk to each other about your feelings. God.
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I love how you’re being downvoted for stating the most obvious solution.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 months ago
My besties have been in an open relationship for years and it works because of communication, trust, and trying to deserve said trust.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
No, I want it abolished as a social expectation of the “default” situation.
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No one forces a marriage to be monogamous…
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
Put it along with rest of crap in the “you are not ~techncially~ required” pile