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Omnipitaph@reddthat.com 3 weeks agoWay to humble brag /s
In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.
SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
“Way to humble brag /s”
Well, I guess looking back they weren’t wrong, lol. Except on the ‘MILF’ thing. Idk how a 17-to-20 year old girl could be a mother. Unless I was Mexican.
“In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.”
I’m just impressed you got older girls to be interested in you.
Allemaniac@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
kids are cruel and usually lack any form of empathy, which is why they are “more direct”. Empathy is taught later on. But, taking pictures, sending dickpics, cat calling you are manners and those should have been teached by their parents. This is vile behaviour and those parents should know what their children are doing at school, maybe partially because of the lack of parental education. I am sorry you had to go through that and feel that helpless about it.
SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Thank you for your understanding.
“teached by their parents.”
What parents are teaching there kids to send dickpics and catcall?
Allemaniac@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
sorry if this was unclear, english is not my mother tongue. I meant pedagogy as a whole. Societal norms and manners and such. Not how to cat call a woman lmao
Omnipitaph@reddthat.com 3 weeks ago
Hormones are one helluva drug xD I hope you’re doing well now. As a someone who was sexually assaulted a few times growing up, I know that it can be difficult to shake.
I know plenty of Christian girls that didn’t make it to 20 before getting knocked up, so I don’t know if its just Mexicans lmao Lots of shotgun weddings!