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SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 6 days agoYour right. This was done by a pre teen but still what is it with teenage boys and sexual harassment? I remember as a high school student aged 17-20 a lot of the younger students would fetishize the idea of doing with an older woman so I received a lot of unwanted attention. I asked out my literal 12-to-15 year olds. I got unsolicited dickpics through my Snapchat. I was given lewd comments/cat calls all the time. I was told I was a “baddie”, “Thicc” and a “MIFT”. I got my butt slapped, I had videos and pictures took of me without my consent and I was too afraid to do anything about it because I thought people would think I was being inappropriate or provoking them in some way.
Omnipitaph@reddthat.com 6 days ago
Way to humble brag /s
In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.
SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 5 days ago
“Way to humble brag /s”
Well, I guess looking back they weren’t wrong, lol. Except on the ‘MILF’ thing. Idk how a 17-to-20 year old girl could be a mother. Unless I was Mexican.
“In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.”
I’m just impressed you got older girls to be interested in you.
Allemaniac@lemmy.world 5 days ago
kids are cruel and usually lack any form of empathy, which is why they are “more direct”. Empathy is taught later on. But, taking pictures, sending dickpics, cat calling you are manners and those should have been teached by their parents. This is vile behaviour and those parents should know what their children are doing at school, maybe partially because of the lack of parental education. I am sorry you had to go through that and feel that helpless about it.
SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 days ago
Thank you for your understanding.
“teached by their parents.”
What parents are teaching there kids to send dickpics and catcall?
Omnipitaph@reddthat.com 3 days ago
Hormones are one helluva drug xD I hope you’re doing well now. As a someone who was sexually assaulted a few times growing up, I know that it can be difficult to shake.
I know plenty of Christian girls that didn’t make it to 20 before getting knocked up, so I don’t know if its just Mexicans lmao Lots of shotgun weddings!