top means the one who penetrates the other. What you’re describing is a dom
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Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 4 months agoNot just gay sex, any sex with power exchange. Can also include completely heterosexual mild BDSM.
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 4 months ago
ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 4 months ago
Maybe it’s me being old but it was never outside of gay sex when I was young
Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 4 months ago
From what I’ve gathered, it’s entirely possible that some previously exclusively gay terms are now more generally applied.
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 4 months ago
For vanilla cis hetero sex it doesn’t apply since the man is always the top and the woman is always the bottom.
Aetherion@lemmy.world 4 months ago
„Always“ Seems like your picture of hetero sex is from a hollywood textbood
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 4 months ago
That’s why I added the word “vanilla”