Comment on Why is the manosphere on the rise? UN Women sounds the alarm over online misogyny

anaVal@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• diffusive@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  And internet is telling women it’s women’s fault. And poor people it’s immigrants fault. And insecure people it’s trans fault.

  We are the most narcissistic generation ever: it’s always someone else fault… and while we are arguing online changes go in the wrong direction (more inequality, more war, less affordable education that means less social mobility)

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  • nichtsowichtig@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    And internet is telling women it’s men fault.

    well they have a point. it’s not all men who do messed up shit, but if messed up shit happens, it is usually because of men.

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    • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Not all women are becons of morality.

      While statistically women are more likely to have empathy and emotional understanding and more communication thus, we are not perfect by any sense.

      Your underlying rhetoric here is deeply divisive. I agree men are more prone to violent action, whether in a leadership role or just as a person. It’s why more women attempt suicide but more men are successful.

      We cant just throw men away. We start with the culture, we start with teaching boys emotional intelligence, language, and how to reach for support. Then, we don’t reject them for reaching for such support.

      It should be considered masculine to show vulnerability, it is one of the hardest things to get used to, if you’ve not been allowed/able to for so long. However, vulnerability leads to personal growth. Real vulnerability, followed by acceptance from peers, will give personal growth, understanding, and acceptance.

      Fathers, hug your sons and tell them you love them. Teach our sons better. Cultural change is slow, you jumping on to say it’s always mens fault is a shallow and lazy thought. You’ve put so little thought into the “whys”.

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      • Sonor@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Thank you for taking time to type this out. This is quality content on the topic, and should be posted under each gender war thread

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    • catty@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      YEAh and because a woman gave birth to that man, it’s women’s fault.

      Logic is good.

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      • nichtsowichtig@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        ? what do you even mean?

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