❤️ feels good to hear from time to time. I’m just shocked at how much people are fine with that.
It’s pretty similar to hexbear and lemmygrad in a way. You learn to avoid and not trigger them because it always end in a bloodbath even though you never intended it to
I believe what infuriates me the most is that your comments just end up being deleted instead of just downvoted. It always goes in the same way, as if there’s only one voice.
will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
You don’t get the point of the instance. That sports thing is deliberately pushed by the alt right because it gets people riled up, it was literally a non issue until they started bringing it up (and lying about it, making it seem like a bigger issue than it really is). There are not a lot of trans women and we largely don’t compete at a professional level. We have to keep hearing this tired old debate over and over, and so on blåhaj, which is supposed to be a safe space, we simply ban all alt right rhetoric targeting us rather than engage in it.
Do you know how often someone shows up and randomly brings up some unrelated alt right talking point? In an unrelated post? Yeah this is not us being sensitive, this is other people not understanding what it means to be a minority being specifically targeted to create engagement. We can’t all expend all of our energy all of the time to rebuke every single argument. That effort would legitimately be inhuman
Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 1 day ago
Lemmy is a federated site, and you have to accept that blahaj is a public instance, as do the rest of the users. If you guys can’t have a conversation without flipping your shit, or can’t handle your own business, then lock the door.
will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
You ever been on an instance that doesn’t have their own rules?
Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 1 day ago
That’s a dead end, I say no and even if I did, it doesn’t change the attitude of blahaj users outside of blahaj, you act like you proved a point, you didn’t, we get madder at eachother, I’m sure you’ve been around this track once or twice.