Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month

• dipshit@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

  If it wasn’t clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying “I’m not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but…” is the equivalent of saying “I’m not racist, I have black friends”. I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

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  • MajesticElevator@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Sure. So questionning about sports and potentially being wrong makes me transphobic?

    That’s exactly my point. If you don’t know, you’re transphobic. If we don’t agree with you, we’re transphobic. If you’re wrong because you made a mistake, then it’s deliberate and you’re transphobic.

    I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

    The good old argument from authority, I see. We’re not the same, and you don’t know me better than myself. Thanks.

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    • Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      If it’s any consolation, I’m with you on blahaj. It’s like a sea of people who can’t wait for someone to point a finger at. Your post was harmless, questioning, and didn’t seem hate-filled at all. I usually avoid blahaj users, I never know when even a harmless phrase will be enough to cause one of them to have a nervous breakdown.

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      • will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        You don’t get the point of the instance. That sports thing is deliberately pushed by the alt right because it gets people riled up, it was literally a non issue until they started bringing it up (and lying about it, making it seem like a bigger issue than it really is). There are not a lot of trans women and we largely don’t compete at a professional level. We have to keep hearing this tired old debate over and over, and so on blåhaj, which is supposed to be a safe space, we simply ban all alt right rhetoric targeting us rather than engage in it.

        Do you know how often someone shows up and randomly brings up some unrelated alt right talking point? In an unrelated post? Yeah this is not us being sensitive, this is other people not understanding what it means to be a minority being specifically targeted to create engagement. We can’t all expend all of our energy all of the time to rebuke every single argument. That effort would legitimately be inhuman

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      • MajesticElevator@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        ❤️ feels good to hear from time to time. I’m just shocked at how much people are fine with that.

        It’s pretty similar to hexbear and lemmygrad in a way. You learn to avoid and not trigger them because it always end in a bloodbath even though you never intended it to

        I believe what infuriates me the most is that your comments just end up being deleted instead of just downvoted. It always goes in the same way, as if there’s only one voice.

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    • jbk@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      people (with a much different experience than you) tell you that you’re hurting them. you say they’re just lying?

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      • MajesticElevator@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Things doesn’t always go your way and people should accept that.

        If it hurts them to discuss these kind of topics, then don’t, but don’t go and call people transphobic for that because it’s just not. Maybe they should just not get hurt or offended that easily.

        If you get hurt because someone doesn’t have the same opinion as you while still being respectful, that’s sad.

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• seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Zzzzzz

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  • dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yup they’re your typical transphobic bigot who’s mad that someone actually stands up against them and won’t tolerate them. It’s important to challenge these types of people so that the mask can slip off and they reveal themselves for who they really are.

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    • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Ada is far from being a good Admin

      The moment you disagree with anything she does or says your account will be permanently banned and you will have a different opinion.

      .blahaj is not a queer space, it’s Ada’s space.

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      • yes_blackphillip@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Any queer-friendly instances you’d recommend?

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• Zealousideal_Fox_900@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Have met her IRL. She’s a decent person, but not the greatest at admining, and needs to finally fucking block.ml like an adult.

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  • MajesticElevator@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I don’t believe she’s a bad person, but not the one you want to be managing an instance

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