I agree with almost everything you said except 4. is only true for past mistakes. I don’t think you should excuse ongoing, genuinely harmful behaviours just because that person will be gone one day. Not that I necessarily think that’s what you meant but I wanted to emphasise it.
whaleross@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Absolutely. That post was not a list of commandments. It was intended as support for OP in this very moment that they are having a crisis.