Comment on Where Have All My Deep Male Friendships Gone?

Fredselfish@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I’m sorry you’re in that boat. I’ve experienced it and it sucks. Hang in there.

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  • Fredselfish@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Thanks taking it day by day.

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• mjhelto@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I was a firm believer that all the really close personal guy friends I’d ever had, I made in high school or before. The idea that as an adult male that I could expect to make another real bond with anyone new, outside of this circle of old friends, was impossible. Until it did. In my mid to early 30s, my dept. merged with his. We had talked a few times while making fun of clueless users forgetting their passwords, so I already knew we would get along as coworkers. He was a groomsman at my wedding many years later.

  I know it can seem insurmountable to find meaningful male friendships in mid-upper 20s and 30s, but it does happen. I’m rooting for you friend. Take care of yourself.

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