Comment on How I discovered my partner was an undercover police officer sent to spy on me

• Valmond@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  As horrible this is (as owl said) how do you figure out it is rape?

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  • Genius@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception

    False name, false life story, false reason for having sex with her. He had sex with her in order to spy on her.

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    • Valmond@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Roger Dutton sentenced a 25-year-old woman, Gayle Newland, to eight years in prison for pretending to be a man

      Soon: it was rape because I thought he was nice.

      If everything is rape, then nothing is.

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  • Taleya@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s sex under false pretences and deception. That’s a legally defined rape.

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  • owl@infosec.pub ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I agree with you. If being misleading is equal to rape, then this rule can easily be abused.

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• owl@infosec.pub ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  If a woman has sex with me (hypothetically) because she saw me wearing expensive clothes, but later it turns out they were cheap imitations, that would be misleading, but not rape.

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• Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  No it isn’t.

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