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Comment on What is my sexuality if I’m exclusively attracted to traditionally feminine people, regardless of whether they are male or female?

Boddhisatva@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

I think trying to define it is fairly pointless. We love what we love and we lust what we lust. Rather than defining it, I wish we could all just accept that and stop hating people for having different preferences.

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angrystego@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Yep, but sometimes you want to communicate about your preferences, and then you need understandable terminology. Giving names to phenomena is generally useful. Discussing things is useful. Understanding natural diversity is great and important.

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- Boddhisatva@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Fair point but I’m not sure that naming every permutation is possible. We might be better off trying to make do with charts or something.
  
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  - angrystego@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    Yes.
    
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trolololol@lemmy.world ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Yep. We don’t give names for people who like red and their second favourite colour is yellow.

Just be yourself, be kind to others and move on.

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