OK, as a 54 year old male, I’ll clear some of this up, from my perspective Some is true, some is not. It sounds like her male relative never matured emotionally, and became more submissive due to fear from becoming old.

Yes, when a male is in his mid-teens, until around the age of 45, we are literally consumed by testosterone driven sex drive. It’s maddening.

But the being so testosterone soaked that you have to fuck something, anything, and then wonder if you’re gay? No. That doesn’t happen.

People are born gay. That said, human sexuality is a spectrum. Very few people are all the way at each end. Most people lean heavily toward one end. Do some mostly straight dudes sometimes find another dude attractive? Sure. But if they’re 85%+ on the straight end of the spectrum, they never act on it, and occasionally jerk off to a gay fantasy. But they’ll never act on it. While high, I’ve had straight friends admit it.

Not all men want to fraternize with all men all the time, Some, myself included, prefer the company of women, and men who aren’t locked into the adolescent dick-measuring mentality. It’s extremely annoying. My father was an overgrown adolescent who had to constantly pretend he was an “Alpha,” a badass. Up until he died in his 70’s. It was sad, and embarrassing. The guys who do this are emotionally immature. The people that Tate takes advantage of.

By middle age, and older age, these people realize they younger guys can beat their asses, easily. They learn discretion out of fear, not enlightenment. They still like to watch younger guys beat the the shit out of each other, then tell stories of how they beat the shit out the pizza guy 30 years ago, for fun, or that gay guy… because he was gay. I know this, because I hear it.