You are right we shouldn't explain federation. But tell them for example with PieFed, they can watch peertube video, comment to mastodon group...but not federation.
As for the instance, it would be great if they have an instance picker : what are your language ? Favorite topic ? Then give them several instance.
asudox@lemmy.asudox.dev 11 months ago
I disagree. Most won’t.
It’s better to tell them about federation and decentralization before they join and start asking why there are duplicate communities with the same name (I’ve seen people asking similar questions about the absolute basics of federation here before in some communities). Not in detail, but enough to give them the basic idea.
And if they find it “difficult”, then we already prevented someone from wasting storage space when they would leave the fediverse after a few days anyway.